How We Prevent Our Own Happiness
We often life our lives out of alignment with what we truly want or what will make us feel happy.
We put others first. We compromise. We take the comfortable middle ground, often in order to keep the peace. We go with the flow no matter where it takes us, trusting in the safety of playing it safe. We do what we feel we should do.
If effect, we often deny ourselves. We put ourselves last and ignore our own needs. We hide behind being selfless, cowering away from the disastrous prospect of being considered selfish.
Does any of this sound like you? Do you hold yourself back from being happy in some of these ways? If so, how is that working out for you?
If you are not happy in your life, then I am here to tell you from a loving place, to change it.
Stop living in your comfort zone with no thoughts of expanding it. Stop listening to and living your life by 'shoulds' - they are other people's expectations, not yours. Stop using others as an excuse to not live up to your potential and live fully in ways that will enable you to grow and flourish. Stop letting the opinions of others keep you stuck.
You have so many more choices available to you than you might think. If you are not feeling happy, fulfilled, stimulated or nourished in your life, then do something about it! I believe that each of us deserves to feel these things and so do you!
If you don't know where to start, book a call with me to see if I can help (I promise I won't be as bossy as my rant above!): https://hazeladdleycoaching.com/clarity-consultation.html
Be happy!
Hazel
